Perfect Day-

To start with, everybody has problems and they appear monstrous for every single one of us. At the same time there always is someone with more severe problems than us and less problems than us. Its only our perception of how terrible our issues are that make us happy or sad. Life is a journey filled with challenges and surprises. Ups and downs are quite natural and inevitable - knowing this still if one is unhappy about someone or something in life then they really need help/

I feel the perfect day is when there is no gap between getting on the bed and sleeping; or/and opening eyes and waking up; despite all the problems around. I think and feel perfection is so easy when we can differentiate perfection from idealism. Being ideal is impossible and expectations close to idealism are irrational. But perfection is possible and should be personalized! - what I mean is if one fits in every possible thing he/she wants to do in a day in a reasonable, logical and timely way that sure is a perfect day.

In reality there are no rules, we all write our own rules and play by our own rules sometimes in consciousness and sometimes unknowingly. Determining those rules to make our seconds, minutes and days better is a wise mans job. Its easy trust me - simplifying life is the key. Confusions often lead to wrong decision and will complicate life leading to loss of peace by opening doors to unhappiness. Well, if you are in confusion - TALK. doesn't matter who you talk to - self or family or friends or even your pets. Its all about you clearing your own confusion. I have seen many people (some call them introverts/conservative people) who keep their problems and confusions to themselves and wallow in agony, pain and worry all the time. OK if you don't want to express out or give others a chance to pick on you (the reason a few of them say) but what about self talk.... do not under estimate the power of self talk! It might sound cinematic or very flowery but it works!

We all have our secrets and stuff we never might want others to know but can we get such thing out of our mind or life? then what is the harm is talking to ourselves and opening up the hairball of complexities.

Well, all I suggest is our happiness for sure is in our hands as long is we are not trying to please everyone, everywhere and every-time. Every day is a perfect day if we can make it!

Have a great day folks!!!

Ignorance is a torture unless otherwise its in pristine form!

I always took it for granted that the everyday quotes like "Ignorance is Bliss" "Knowledge is Divine" etc are absolute truths. But... If given a thought, I kind of feel they are incomplete!

Absolute Ignorance is Bliss - Now that's complete. Lets take a child's mind for a start - Its a clean slate and a child is always in bliss but as he/she grows into adulthood, the impurities of this world barge into the system and that child's mind is no longer pristine to dwell in the blissfulness anymore.Adolescence brings in competition through comparison and contrast. That makes the mind all more restless opening doors of ego and self-consciousness. This is exactly when one feels the need of acknowledgment and appreciation irrespective of one's achievement! And if not solaced by these, that person will long for it more.  - meaning no more bliss and no more absolute ignorance. They know they want something but cant figure out what!!! What a pity! This continues through out a lifetime unless its obstructed by complacency/laziness or success/achievement.

I am in  a point where I am not absolutely ignorant of the world around me and it would be foolish to expect to know everything in one lifetime. Does that mean that humans have to suffer in this partial ignorance all their life? Is this the struggle that life puts us through? whats the point... do we learn anything or do we leave anything? What kind of life are we living? - Happiness - Yes it is there but Bliss aahhh not possible. We feel happy if we eat our fav food or we feel happy when we hear our fav music or alike but when do we feel blissful?

Okaaaay!! thats quite some musing - back to the normal world. I am in a blissful state momentarily when I see good art or hear time stopping music or jaw dropping ballet or anything that will hold still the ever moving time. I wish that I have many such moments which will hold time still - That will be my Bliss.!